Are You That Kind of Man?
In answer to the wildly popular quote, Be the kind of woman that when your feet hit the ground each morning, the devil says, “Aw crap, She’s up!”, here is one for you men out there.
Be the kind of man that when you step out of the house each morning, the goddess Athena purrs “Now THAT’S what I’m talking about!”
Do you want a woman
who surrenders her heart and body to you? Then here’s a clue for you!
Most of us REALLY DO value your integrity, your valor, your strength, your commitment to excellence, your intelligence, your ability to generate and maintain an income, your encouragement, your passion, your humor, and of course to be honored by you.
Think this is a tall order? We don’t!
For many females out there, there’s not much sexier than a man with these qualities. Well, these qualities and one more SUPER important talent, COMMUNICATION. I didn’t include this in the qualities, because for the most part, effective communication (which includes listening) has to be learned. One of the biggest frustrations we woman can experience is a man who hasn’t learned the talent (and doesn’t have the courage) to speak what’s so, and to really listen to and hear what we’re saying.
One of the biggest turn-ons is a man who is confident in who he is, what he wants, and what he thinks and feels…and to have to ability to communicate it!
It’s a talented man, indeed, who is able to talk with a woman, and get her to slow down her mind and help to alleviate her worries.
If you’re this kind of man, we’ll be absolute putty in your hands in the bedroom. And that’s good right?!
All good to you!
Donna M Thomas
Intuitive Life Coach, Healing Conduit, Mastery Group Leader,
Author of From Pebbles to Pathways: A Journey of Healing the Heart, One Insight at a Time
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This blog, and all my writings, are explorations into the wondrous, deep, and ever-evolving process of living, loving and growing. My intention with Pebbles for Thought is to empower and uplift, one post at a time.
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Hey Donna,
No, that’s not a tall order, it’s a spot-on set of benchmarks against which all men can measure themselves.
And in answer to your second question, “Yes, you are absolutely right, that’s VERY good!”
With love and respect,
Bruce
I know this about you, Bruce! 🙂
So let me get this straight… You want us to help you slow your minds down and be responsible for the idea that… “Most of us REALLY DO value your integrity, your valor, your strength, your commitment to excellence, your intelligence, your ability to generate and maintain an income, your encouragement, your passion, your humor, and of course to be honored by you.
Think this is a tall order? We don’t!” What fascinates me is that it is all about YOU. Great that YOU become putty in the bedroom… but do we have to put up with your minds running uncontrolled. Where is the effort the women are making??? Why are we responsible for your sanity? Get over yourselves. There is nothing sexier than a confident, intelligent, non neurotic woman. She gets even sexier if she has a pregnant belly and is loving it. Don’t get me wrong… I love the list of things to be as a guy… but seriously… if you are really going to go there… us guys have a list for YOU too. Personally I think it is all BS. Real love is about living for one another… and quiet selfless. It doesn’t have a list.
Dear “Anonymous”,
Thank you for your comment.
YES we want you to be the river banks for the raging waters that we are. We want you to be the calm for our storm. And for it, we will share that passion without bounds. The strong men that I know and respect understand this.
I’m not talking about creating a one-sided relationship. What I’m talking about is one side of a two-sided empowered and passionate relationship, to put it simply.
Love as a parent for a child is selfless. Not so as adults. We have needs and desires. It’s all part of the amazing opportunity and creativity in relationships…learning how to navigate through life together, with our differences.
As far as where responsibility lays, the way I see it, is each person is 100% responsible for creating the life they want, and their experience. Perhaps you didn’t see this post: Practice #5 Take Responsibility for Your Actions, Your Experience, and Your Future. https://donna-thomas.com/practice-5-take-responsibility-for-your-actions-your-experience-and-your-future/
This post is ultimately about taking responsibility for creating a deep relationship that works, from an empowered woman’s perspective. Women who love and live fiercely. Sometimes we love quietly as you said. Sometimes we roar!
All good to you,
Donna
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